Topic is Sleeping. 
			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 3:39 PM on Sunday, May 24th, 2020	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				Belle618 ( new member #74871)		posted at 3:08 AM on Wednesday, July 15th, 2020	
			 
	Thank you so much for sharing. 
 
			 	 			
				    				Hurtoveragain ( new member #74891)		posted at 6:12 PM on Thursday, July 16th, 2020	
			 
	Oh how i needed this. Thank you! I have been the director of many movies where i am not the actress. I need to refocus. 1st i must delete all the texts which are a daily reminder. 
 
			 	 			
				    				 heartbroken_kk (original poster  member #22722)		posted at 4:11 PM on Tuesday, July 28th, 2020	
				FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good. 		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 5:23 PM on Friday, December 18th, 2020	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 5:47 PM on Friday, February 5th, 2021	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 9:45 PM on Tuesday, May 11th, 2021	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 4:34 PM on Friday, June 18th, 2021	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				SI Staff ( Moderator #10)		posted at 2:25 PM on Monday, September 13th, 2021	
		 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 12:12 AM on Saturday, February 19th, 2022	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				Summertime22 ( member #79796)		posted at 6:54 PM on Sunday, February 20th, 2022	
			 
	Thank you so much. I will definitely try this! My thoughts are driving me crazy. Xx 
 
			 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 2:44 PM on Tuesday, April 12th, 2022	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 3:58 PM on Monday, June 20th, 2022	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 5:53 PM on Saturday, October 15th, 2022	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				doublerainbow ( member #82239)		posted at 1:45 AM on Thursday, October 27th, 2022	
			 
	Thank you, I really needed this and will try it.  Sadly I don’t even know how / where to start thinking alternate thoughts / topics. 
 
			 			Me: BS (38) Him: WS (45) D-Day (Jan 2022), going through D.  1 DD age 4.  Just want to know there’s light at the end of this mess.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 4:04 PM on Wednesday, November 9th, 2022	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 4:26 PM on Wednesday, January 11th, 2023	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 6:23 PM on Saturday, February 18th, 2023	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 6:13 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				Squish ( member #79546)		posted at 7:12 PM on Friday, June 9th, 2023	
			 
	Thank you so much for taking the time to share what has worked for you. I am looking forward to being responsible for me and seeing how this will help me. Thank you again!!! 
 
			 	 
	 Topic is Sleeping.