gr8ful ( member #58180) posted at 7:40 PM on Friday, July 17th, 2026
I’m sorry but I’m going to take a different side here. FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILDREN, do NOT assume your wife has told your in laws about how her AP has abused children. Yes, blood is thicker than water, but I’m pretty sure your kids would be their grandchildren - that’s blood. They may be fully willing to throw YOU under the bus, but I’d bet they’d not be so quick to throw their own flesh-and-blood to the wolves.
Give them whatever evidence you have on this a-hole regarding his abuse allegations and/or convictions. Tell them while it’s clear her family is routing against you, but it’s critical for the safety of their grandchildren they know who your wife may well be bringing around their offspring. These kinds of relationships are the #1 source of severe abuse to children.
For the love of your own kids, you need to tell them at least this aspect!
NukeZombie ( member #83543) posted at 7:58 PM on Friday, July 17th, 2026
Sorry to hear about a new DDay with a new AP, Icedale.
Was the new AP a physical affair? How did you learn of it? Although it doesn't really matter, is the new AP as low class as her original AP?
Press forward with the divorce and continue keeping your kids as your top priority. Keep working on yourself both emotionally and physically- take your frustrations out on the heavy bag and weights.
I forget if you've filed and if she's been served yet? Still living in the same house as WW in an in-home separation? May want to suggestion since she has two boyfriends she has 2 options to move into but the kids stay with you. Keep up with the 180, remember new contact could lead to more hurt.
Good luck.
