Topic is Sleeping. 
			
				    				Josephine01 ( member #38511)		posted at 9:49 PM on Sunday, July 24th, 2016	
			 
	Thank you. I needed this today. 
 
			 			Me, 47 BS
H, 65 WH
2 boys 23 and 18 years old
Married  24 years		
	 	 			
				    				1lifeoflies ( member #54208)		posted at 9:53 PM on Monday, July 25th, 2016	
			 
	Yep, find that I need to stay busy somehow. 
 
			 	 			
				    				Devastated2015 ( member #50693)		posted at 3:11 AM on Wednesday, July 27th, 2016	
			 
	Thank you for this post! I'm not new but have been having a rough couple days. This helped me today. 
 
			 			BS Me-39WH-SA-43Married-21 years DDAY 12/03/2015 crazy OW 5 month A plus a few ONS they were all used for sexSexting!😕
Dday #2 4/8/2022
Dday#3 1/20/2024
3 Children- ages 13-20		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:26 PM on Thursday, August 4th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:12 PM on Thursday, August 18th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:00 PM on Monday, August 22nd, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 11:20 PM on Wednesday, August 24th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				nowiknow23 ( member #33226)		posted at 6:47 PM on Saturday, August 27th, 2016	
				You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:35 PM on Thursday, September 8th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				hard_yards ( member #23549)		posted at 12:36 PM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016	
				
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right... 
		
	 	 			
				    				BeeBee64 ( member #54718)		posted at 3:06 PM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016	
			 
	Thanks! Helpful. Getting the dark thoughts to shut up so I can sleep is the worst. 
 
			 	 			
				    				jen54 ( member #47812)		posted at 4:31 PM on Sunday, September 11th, 2016	
			 
	Thanks for the indepth method. 
 
 
	I've practiced mindfulness but your description of the process is very comprehensive. 
 
			 			D Day= April 21, 2015
Me: BS
Husband: WS
Married 40 years, together 41
Affair 5 year
The journey is my home.		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 7:48 PM on Friday, September 30th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 12:17 PM on Friday, November 4th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				GeoHeart ( member #55800)		posted at 12:06 AM on Sunday, November 6th, 2016	
			 
	Thank you for bumping this, it is very helpful.  I am new around here and hadn't seen it. 
 
			 			D-day:  August 2016
Status: Trying R		
	 	 			
				    				 heartbroken_kk (original poster  member #22722)		posted at 2:56 AM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016	
			 
	bumping my own thread  
 
 
 
	I'm so happy this has helped so many people. I still use this technique for peace in a stressful world!  
 
 
			 			FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good. 		
	 	 			
				    				Mimmie ( member #56107)		posted at 2:52 PM on Thursday, December 1st, 2016	
			 
	Thanks for bumping this, I really needed to change my thoughts they are stopping my progress. This will really help even though there are times I get extremely anxious or tense this helps me through it. I am extremely grateful that I came across your post at this very difficult time . 
 
			 			BW 36
WH 37
2 awesome kids, 17, 9
DDay Sept 16, 
OW not worth mentioning 
Reconciling ????? One day at a time
		
	 	 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 1:07 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2016	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 			
				    				Willthepainstop ( new member #56442)		posted at 4:31 AM on Monday, December 19th, 2016	
			 
	I'm gonna try this. Great post 
 
			 		 			
				    				minusone ( member #50175)		posted at 8:45 PM on Saturday, January 7th, 2017	
				"I did then what I knew how to do.  Now that I know better, I do better".   Maya Angelou		
	 	 
	 Topic is Sleeping.