My husband is on Tinder
I never thought I’d be writing something like this, but here I am.
I’ve been married for a few years, and like any relationship, we’ve had ups and downs. Recently, though, I noticed my husband becoming distant — less affectionate, always on his phone, late-night scrolling. My gut told me something was off. Our sex life got pretty dull as well, and it just seemed like he was drifting away.
One night, I couldn’t sleep and decided to check. I didn’t want to snoop through his phone, so I looked him up on DoTheySwipe platform. I typed in his details, half-hoping I was just paranoid. But the result came back clear as day: his profile, active on Tinder.
Seeing it hit me like a punch. All those late nights, the distance, the excuses — suddenly it all made sense. I don’t know whether he’s just browsing or actually meeting people, but either way it feels like a betrayal.
Right now, I’m torn. Do I confront him directly? Do I just throw divorce papers in his face? I feel like he’s going to come up with a bunch of excuses, trying to sugarcoat the whole ordeal.
Do I wait and see what he says? Part of me wants to scream, part of me just feels numb.
Has anyone here been through something similar?
3 comments posted: Thursday, September 18th, 2025
