Me: BS 44
Him: WH 43
7 year LTA, DDay 1: June 4, 2013
DDay2: 6/5/16-Same OW 
DDay3: 8/19/16-Same OW
DDay4:  8/1/17--found OW stalking me here at SI
Married 20 years
2 kids aged 14 & 12
Plan: get self out of infidelity
        
    
 
    
    
	
        
        
    Someone check a number for me?
 
	Could someone look up a cell # for me?  Just received the strangest text. 
 
 
	561-254-6215 
 
 
	Thanks! 
 
		 5 comments		 posted: Friday, March 3rd, 2017
Samsung Email
 
	My WH has carried on his affair through emailing to text. 
 
 
	I have caught him once in 2013---he was all, "I'll end it.  I love you." then caught him with same woman in 2016 ( I don't think it ever ended). He was using email to text---where he emails her ( thus no trace on the bill) and it goes directly to her phone as a text.  Then 2 months later, I catch him using Messenger to communicate with her and I file for divorce.  In the Messenger situation, before I had proof and was just suspicious of his Messenger account, he denied vehemently that he was in contact with her.  I was able to download the Facebook records ---through information I gathered here from SI--- to prove he was lying.  It was amazing how he lied to my face and then when I had proof, he admitted it. 
 
 
	Now, I am suspicious of his email activity on his phone.  I have been monitoring his Google Activity and he has been using his Samsung email---which when I look at the actual phone, is only his work email account---at all hours of the day and night.  He is an attorney and normally shouldn't need to access his work email at 11:45 pm or 1 AM.  Weird, right? 
 
 
	I know what you are thinking---MissedRedFlags when is enough going to be enough?  I hear you---I do.  I would just like to have the peace of mind of knowing for sure before I file again. 
 
 
	Can someone help me?  Any advice on how to see what emails he is actually sending. 
 
		 2 comments		 posted: Saturday, February 4th, 2017
Messenger
 
	Found out through Google account activity that WH was installing then deleting Messenger on his phone on a daily basis. 
 
 
	I confronted him and he told me he was logging in to my account to see what I'd been talking about with my sister. 
 
 
	Does anyone have any ideas on how to track Messenger? 
 
		 8 comments		 posted: Sunday, August 21st, 2016