BearlyBreathing (original poster member #55075) posted at 11:33 PM on Friday, September 18th, 2026
My user name comes from the song "Barely Breathing" by Duncan Sheik. That song just echoed in my heads after DDay like it was on repeat.
So now I鈥檓 sad that the singer of that song has passed. And it makes my username even more poignant for me.. 馃ズ
[This message edited by BearlyBreathing at 6:13 PM, Sunday, September 20th]
Me: BS 57 (49 on d-day)Him: *who cares ;-) *. D-Day 8/15/2016 LTA. Kinda liking my new life :-)
**horrible typist, lots of edits to correct. :-/ **
Rocko ( member #80436) posted at 4:00 PM on Sunday, September 20th, 2026
It was "Nobody's Fool" by Cinderella that got me through! Must've played it a million times those first few months!
Chaos ( member #61031) posted at 3:49 PM on Friday, October 16th, 2026
Mine was Walk Away by Dropkick Murphys.
I know it about deadbeat dads (and/or mom's) but this one lyric summed it all up:
You walked out that door
To find where you belong
To fulfill your own selfish dreams
I think you might have forgotten
BS-me/WH-4.5yrLTA Married 2+ decades-2 adult children. Multiple DDays w/same LAP until I told OBS 2018- Cease & Desist sent spring 2021 "Hello鈥揗y name is Chaos鈥揧ou f***ed my husband-Prepare to Die!"
The1stWife ( Guide #58832) posted at 7:31 PM on Friday, October 16th, 2026
Yo this day I have a "revenge playlist". Eclectic group of songs that center around cheating and lying and getting revenge on the cheaters.
One song includes a line about saving your AP鈥檚 number under a completely different name.
Whatever gets you through it 
Survived two affairs and brink of Divorce. Happily reconciled. 12 years out from Dday. Reconciliation takes two committed people to be successful.
LittleMonk ( member #86661) posted at 7:41 PM on Friday, October 16th, 2026
"Hell You Call a Dream" - The Warning...
- LM BH
Dday: 12/19/2024
Reconciliation
Me: Secure | Her: Fearful Avoidant
10 month affair... 7 months PA
"The hardest cage to sit in is the one where you hold the key, knowing exactly what freedom looks like on the outside."
