Fighting2Survive ( member #28410)		posted at 12:48 AM on Thursday, August 16th, 2012	
				Me: BW, 40.......Him: FWH, 40
D-day: 3-22-10
DS1: 11, DS2: crawling
Status: R going well
"When you can tell the story and it doesn't bring up any pain, you know it is healed." - Iyanla Vanzant, Broken Pieces		
	 	 			
				    				sisoon ( Moderator #31240)		posted at 12:35 AM on Tuesday, August 28th, 2012	
				fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.		
	 	 			
				    				Jpapageorge ( member #31800)		posted at 3:56 AM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012	
				"Either get busy livin' or get busy dyin'." (and I prefer to live)
"Shame on me for kissing you with my eyes closed."
Spectemur agendo.
Me: FBBF		
	 	 			
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 3:23 PM on Saturday, September 1st, 2012	
			 
	Bump 
 
 
			 			WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 4:39 AM on Sunday, September 2nd, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 3:07 PM on Monday, September 3rd, 2012	
			 
	bump 
 
 
			 	 			
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 12:59 AM on Thursday, September 6th, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 8:55 AM on Saturday, September 8th, 2012	
			 			
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 4:08 PM on Sunday, September 9th, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			
				    				nowiknow23 ( member #33226)		posted at 2:55 PM on Tuesday, September 11th, 2012	
				You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 3:37 PM on Friday, September 14th, 2012	
			 
	
 Bump 
 
			 			BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Steppinglightly ( new member #36432)		posted at 1:03 AM on Wednesday, September 19th, 2012	
				For now - Someone caught stealing is rarely sorry because they stole, they are only sorry because they were caught.		
	 	 			
				    				Spelljean ( member #35624)		posted at 9:56 PM on Saturday, September 22nd, 2012	
				WH: 41
me:  BS, 45
Together 18 1/2 years, married 17
DDAY  8/2/12
OW:  EA- friend of 4 months
Status: separated
		
	 	 			
				    				ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449)		posted at 9:34 PM on Saturday, September 29th, 2012	
			 
	bump 
 
 
			 	 			
				    				kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 2:12 AM on Monday, October 8th, 2012	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
		
	 	 			
				    				ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449)		posted at 9:09 PM on Saturday, October 13th, 2012	
			 
	weekend bump. 
 
 
			 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 4:07 PM on Monday, October 22nd, 2012	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				hank9898 ( member #35405)		posted at 6:55 PM on Sunday, December 2nd, 2012	
				Me - BH (46)
Two great kids
Son (20) US Army
Daughter (18) College student		
	 	 			
				    				annb ( member #22386)		posted at 4:27 AM on Thursday, December 6th, 2012	
		 			
				    				BrandyT ( new member #37621)		posted at 4:52 AM on Thursday, December 6th, 2012	
			 
	Thank you so much for bumping this Annb! Amazing post! 
 
 
	It really should be a sticky!! 
 
			 			Me- BS
Him- WH
M- 7yrs with two kids 6yrs and 6mths
D Day 1- 10/08/12
Insane month of lies and false R
D Day 2- Last discovery 11/23/12
NC with OW- 11/26/12
3mth sexual and emotional A
Moving forward and working on us.