Jen  ( member #26584)		posted at 3:23 AM on Wednesday, November 3rd, 2010	
				Me former Booger Bear ...
https://youtu.be/1TcLw3TOIN8
Hand Me Down MatchBox 20
https://youtu.be/iFdOAyyn76M
Love Falls by HellYeah
		
	 	 			
				    				socold ( member #17400)		posted at 12:19 AM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010	
				(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010		
	 	 			
				    				Cee64D ( member #21836)		posted at 2:25 AM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010	
				The hardest part of forgiveness is accepting it from others...
Me BH 44
Clarrissa FWW 44 
D-Day 04 Oct, 2008		
	 	 			
				    				lulykr ( member #29697)		posted at 1:31 PM on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010	
			 
	This is so helpful. A giant heartfelt thank you for putting this together. 
 
 
	Love 
 
 
	Becca 
 
			 	 			
				    				bufffalo ( member #21854)		posted at 4:18 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010	
			 			
				    				takilasunrise ( member #29786)		posted at 4:21 PM on Wednesday, November 10th, 2010	
			 
	Marking for future reference for myself.......thanks! 
 
			 			BW - Me, 49 years old
WH - Him, 51 years old)
D-Day July 2010 (several D-days to follow)
Divorced February 7, 2012
Denial isn't the way to forgiveness.  The Karma for screwing over a good girl is the Bitch you end up with.		
	 	 			
				    				hard_yards ( member #23549)		posted at 5:41 PM on Thursday, November 11th, 2010	
			 
	bump 
 
 
			 			
I feel like I'm in a parallel universe... everything looks the same... but something's just not right... 
		
	 	 			
				    				bigpicture3236 ( member #27861)		posted at 12:24 PM on Sunday, November 14th, 2010	
				If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.		
	 	 			
				    				bigpicture3236 ( member #27861)		posted at 12:24 PM on Sunday, November 14th, 2010	
				If you love something and hurt it dearly, then chose not to fix it...you never deserved it in the first place.		
	 	 			
				    				willthiseverend ( member #25107)		posted at 11:54 AM on Monday, November 15th, 2010	
				Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.
		
	 	 			
				    				AttemptStrength ( member #27947)		posted at 6:19 PM on Monday, November 15th, 2010	
				BS me
WS him x2 A's
1 autistic DS 
I'd never have spent the money on a wedding dress if I knew I was just going to a costume party.		
	 	 			
				    				lordhasaplan? ( member #30079)		posted at 3:49 AM on Wednesday, November 17th, 2010	
				BS- Me (53)D-day: 5/18/10, lies and TT till (11/26/10). Currently in R. Don't carry others crap. It's your job to fix yourself, not your spouse.		
	 	 			
				    				Edie ( member #26133)		posted at 3:24 PM on Friday, November 26th, 2010	
		 			
				    				ray-ray ( member #29940)		posted at 9:17 AM on Sunday, November 28th, 2010	
			 
	Essential reads for people new to this hell. 
 
			 		 			
				    				kernel ( member #27035)		posted at 10:01 PM on Monday, November 29th, 2010	
				"On particularly rough days when I'm sure I can't possibly endure, I like to remind myself that my track record for getting through bad days so far is 100% and that's pretty good."
		
	 	 			
				    				Edie ( member #26133)		posted at 9:15 AM on Friday, December 3rd, 2010	
		 			
				    				socold ( member #17400)		posted at 11:08 PM on Tuesday, December 7th, 2010	
				(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010		
	 	 			
				    				socold ( member #17400)		posted at 11:49 PM on Friday, December 10th, 2010	
				(me)fBH 35
D-Day Dec 9, 2007
D final Oct 19th 2010		
	 	 			
				    				Holly-Isis ( member #13447)		posted at 1:02 AM on Tuesday, December 14th, 2010	
				"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise.  *CS Lewis*		
	 	 			
				    				ray-ray ( member #29940)		posted at 3:02 AM on Friday, December 17th, 2010