WB1340 ( member #85086) posted at 12:59 AM on Saturday, July 26th, 2025
The fact she refuses to give you the information you need speaks volumes. She's gambling on you just giving up and being content with what you have. She's probably worried that if she gives you all the information you'll leave. You need to convince her that you are leaving unless you get all the information and it doesn't matter how many times you ask the same questions she needs to answer them over and over.
I'm going to assume that since it's been so many years and you're still there that she's banking on you just accepting the status quo and giving up seeking answers from her. Like others have recommended have a sit down with an attorney to discuss your options and let your wife know that you're doing it
Right now your wife is in control and you need to take back the control. Letting her know you have an appointment with a divorce attorney maybe the impetus she needs to either answer your questions or agree to a divorce but what you're living with right now is never going to get better
D-day April 4th 2024. WW was sexting with a married male coworker. Started R a week later, still ongoing...
